Best 678 of Attachment quotes - MyQuotes

By Anonym 15 Sep

Ram Dass

This is photo copyright © By Pumpkin LimitedA feeling of aversion or attachment toward something is your clue that there's work to be done.This is quotes copyright © By Pumpkin Limited

By Anonym 20 Sep

Mary Crocker Cook

When I consider the men (like my father) I have treated in psychotherapy, I recognize the challenge I face as a counselor. These men are in counseling due to an insistent wife, troubled child or their own addiction. They suffer a lack of connection with the people they say they love most. Chronically accused of being over controlling or emotionally absent, they feel at sea when their wives and children claim to be lonely in their presence. How can these people feel “un-loved” when (from his perspective) he has dedicated his life to their welfare? Some of these men will express their lack of vitality and emotional engagement though endless service. They are hyperaware of the moods, needs and prefer-ences of loved ones, yet their self-neglect can be profound. This text examines how a lack of secure early attachment with caregivers can result in the tendency to self-abandon while managing connections with significant others. Their anxiety and distrust of the connection of others will manifest in anxious monitoring, over-giving, passive aggressive approaches to anger and chronic worry. For them, failure to anticipate and meet the needs of others equals abandonment.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Khalil Gibran

Who can depart from his pain and aloneness without regret? Too many fragments of the spirit have I scattered in these streets, and too many are the children of my longing that walk naked among these hills, and I cannot withdraw from them without a burden and an ache. It is not a garment I cast off this day, bit a skin that I tear with my own hands... Yet I cannot tarry longer.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Teresa

Her heart is full of joy with love, for in the Lord her mind is stilled. She has renounced every selfish attachment and draws abiding joy and strength from the One within. She lives not for herself, but lives to serve the Lord of Love in all, and swims across the sea of life breasting its rough waves joyfully.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Dalai Lama

The compassion we feel normally is biased and mixed with attachment. Genuine compassion flows towards all living beings, particularly your enemies. If I try to develop compassion towards my enemy, it may not benefit him directly, he may not even be aware of it. But it will immediately benefit me by calming my mind. On the other hand, if I dwell on how awful everything is, I immediately lose my peace of mind.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Virginia Woolf

For now she need not think of anybody. She coud be herself, by herself. And that was what now she often felt the need of - to think; well not even to think. To be silent; to be alone. All the being and the doing, expansive, glittering, vocal, evaporated; and one shrunk, with a sense of solemnity, to being oneself, a wedge-shaped core of darkness, something invisible to others... and this self having shed its attachments was free for the strangest adventures.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Walt Disney

The life and ventures of Mickey Mouse have been closely bound up with my own personal and professional life. It is understandable that I should have sentimental attachment for the little personage who played so big a part in the course of Disney Productions and has been so happily accepted as an amusing friend wherever films are shown around the world. He still speaks for me and I still speak for him.

By Anonym 15 Sep

William Bartram

The parental, and filial affections seem to be as ardent, their sensibility and attachment, as active and faithful, as those observed to be in human nature.

By Anonym 13 Sep

A. G. Mohan

Attachment to the Divine leads to detachment from the mind. This leads to the realization that the nature of the Seer and the Divine are the same.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Gautama Buddha

Attachment leads to suffering.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche

Always recognize the dreamlike qualities of life and reduce attachment and aversion. Practice goodheartedness toward all beings. Be loving and compassionate, no matter what others do to you. What they do will not matter so much when you see it as a dream. The trick is to have positive intention during the dream. This is the essential point. This is true spirituality.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Theodore Bikel

We Jews have a special attachment to the Book. The study of page after page in tomes yellowing with age was obligatory.

By Anonym 15 Sep

George Eliot

We long for an affection altogether ignorant of our faults. Heaven has accorded this to us in the uncritical canine attachment.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Saint Francis De Sales

Without a doubt, one of the things which keeps us from attaining perfection is our tongue. When one has reached the point of no longer committing faults in speech, he has surely reached perfection, as was said by the Holy Spirit. The worst defect in talking is talking too much. Hence, in speech be brief and virtuous, brief and gentle, brief and simple, brief and charitable, brief and amiable.

By Anonym 15 Sep

T. S. Eliot

There are three conditions which often look alike Yet differ completely, flourish in the same hedgerow: Attachment to self and to things and to persons, detachment From self and from things and from persons; and, growing between them, indifference, ... .

By Anonym 15 Sep

Stefan Molyneux

Compassion without discipline is egregious self-sabotage.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Dada Bhagwan

Equanimity means that one does not do abhorrence at the time of abhorrence (generating incidents) and one does not do attachment at the time of attachment (generating incidents).

By Anonym 18 Sep

Dada Bhagwan

Remaining absolutely non-acquisitive (aparigrahi) amidst all possessions is the ultimate ‘test examination’.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

When someone is drowning in the ocean of attachments, Surrender is the life jacket they can put on and wait for the rescue team

By Anonym 13 Sep

Frederick Lenz

As you learn to accept that the body is transitory, as you watch it with love, but without attachment, the body will develop purity.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Kathleen Kendall-tackett

We should understand the mother and child as a mutually responsive dyad. They are a symbiotic unit that make each other healthier and happier in mutual responsiveness. This expands to other caregivers too. -Darcia Narvaez

By Anonym 13 Sep

Mahavatar Babaji

Even in the world, the yogi who faithfully discharges his responsibilities, without personal motive or attachment, treads the sure path of enlightenment.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Edward Gibbon

Instead of pressing, with the foremost of the crowd, into the palace of Constantinople, Libanius calmly expected his arrival at Antioch; withdrew from court on the first symptoms of coldness and indifference; required a formal invitation for each visit; and taught his sovereign an important lesson, that he might command the obedience of a subject, but that he must deserve the attachment of a friend.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Jerome Kagan

At each stage of development the child needs different resources from the family. During the first year, a variety of experience and the availability of the parents for attachment are primary. During the second and third years, stimulation of language development is critical. During the years prior to school entrance, information that persuades children they are loved becomes critical, and during the school years it is important for children to believe that they can succeed at the tasks they want to master.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Frederick Lenz

Selfless giving reminds us that there is an eternally present spirit in all of us, that when revealed, liberates us from both the transitory and the eternal - both of which ultimatly can be attachments.

By Anonym 15 Sep

William Cowper

This fond attachment to the well-known place Whence first we started into life's long race, Maintains its hold with such unfailing sway, We feel it e'en in age, and at our latest day.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Dada Bhagwan

God says only one thing if you want to have attachment towards worldly life; go ahead and get attached to it; or else, get attached to Me. If you get attached to Me, you will get permanent happiness and if you get attached to the worldly life, you will not find contentment!

By Anonym 14 Sep

Sam Harris

Nonbelievers like myself stand beside you, dumbstruck by the Muslim hordes who chant death to whole nations of the living. But we stand dumbstruck by you as well--by your denial of tangible reality, by the suffering you create in service to your religious myths, and by your attachment to an imaginary God.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Alexander Weinstein

We shuffle out of office buildings after being laid-off by draconian bosses; we sit on hold for ten minutes only to be told by a supervisor that the charge on our cable bill can't be removed; we click a crying emoji on Facebook as our last whimper of protest. So rather than end the story ["Ice Age"] with the expected violence and destruction of evil, I wanted to focus on the way the characters end up sabotaging their own community though their attachments to the consumerism of the old world.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Diana L. Eck

I guess one of the things that is an advantage of the world in which we live is that I can at least I can have multiple homes. I can have that attachment to Montana and to Cambridge and to India.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Marty Rubin

When a thing becomes indispensable it's time to give it up.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Gautama Buddha

Attachment is the source of all suffering.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Dada Bhagwan

When there is no attachment-abhorrence; one is on the path of liberation [moksha].

By Anonym 18 Sep

Dada Bhagwan

Physical pleasures are not associated with attachment-abhorrence; the belief in an opinion itself is attachment-abhorrence.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Girdhar Joshi

We are taught to be free from all vices of life. No greed, anger, lust, and attachment with any mundane things.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Steven Knight

No screenplay is possible, unless you get some attachment from somebody who's going to get it made.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Asa Don Brown

Attachment. A secure attachment is the ability to bond; to develop a secure and safe base; an unbreakable or perceivable inability to shatter to bond between primary parental caregiver(s) and child; a quest for familiarity; an unspoken language and knowledge that a caregiver will be a permanent fixture.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Judith Butler

Surely binationalism is not love, but there is, we might say, a necessary and impossible attachment that makes a mockery of identity, an ambivalence that emerges from the decentering of the nationalist ethos and that forms the basis of a permanent ethical demand.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Dalai Lama

When the only bond between close friends is attachment, then even a minor issue may cause one's projections to change. As soon as our projections change, the attachment disappears, because that attachment was based solely on projection and expectation. It is possible to have compassion without attachment, and similarly, to have anger without hatred.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Warwick Middleton

The capacity for dissociation enables the young child to exercise their innate life-sustaining need for attachment in spite of the fact that principal attachment figures are also principal abusers.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Akiroq Brost

It's OK to have negative thoughts, we all have them. Just don't allow yourself to attach to them. You decide how much time, attention, and energy you put into your thoughts. Where do you want to make that investment? Don't you want to invest in something that will help you? Recognize, and make the choice.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Lama Surya Das

It is not the outer objects that entangle us. It is the inner clinging that entangles us." - Tilopa

By Anonym 15 Sep

Marlo Morgan

The releasing of attachment to object and certain beliefs was already indelibly written as a very necessary step in my human progress toward being.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Rajneesh

Just seeing the fact that this is an attachment, that attachment is a bondage - a beautiful word for bondage - that attachment is not love... just seeing the ugliness of attachment - it drops; then arises love. The same energy that was becoming attachment, released from attachment becomes a totally different energy; it becomes love.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Wayne Dyer

Attachment to being right creates suffering. When you have a choice to be right, or to be kind, choose kind and watch your suffering disappear.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Sandra Lee Dennis

Betrayal annihilates trust. The more trust there is to begin with, and the more deception is involved, the more damage is done.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Swami Vivekananda

Only by practice and non-attachment can we conquer mind.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Rajneesh

Attachment brings misery, unattachment brings blissfulness. So use things, but don't be used by them. Live life but don't be lived by it. Possess things, but don't be possessed by them. Have things - that's not a problem. I am not for renunciation. Enjoy everything that life gives, but always remain free.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Letitia Elizabeth Landon

Strange the affection which clings to inanimate objects - objects which cannot even know our love! But it is not return that constitutes the strength of an attachment.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Jane Austen

Time will generally lessen the interest of every attachment not within the daily circle.