Best 652 of Victim quotes - MyQuotes

By Anonym 16 Sep

Josh Hatcher

In our culture today – there is a rampant “victim mentality” – and while we don’t want to take away the legitimate issues that a real victim of a crime or abuse faces – we think somehow people have used their status as victim as a cop out, or invented reasons to identify as a victim.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Mike Dooley

Without words like blame, victim, and fault, I do believe about 50% of the unhappiness in the world would be cured.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Sarah E. Olson

Being in a state of denial is a universally human response to situations which threaten to overwhelm. People who were abused as children sometimes carry their denial like precious cargo without a port of destination. It enabled us to survive our childhood experiences, and often we still live in survival mode decades beyond the actual abuse. We protect ourselves to excess because we learned abruptly and painfully that no one else would.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Ronald Reagan

The victims of crime have been transformed into a group oppressively burdened by a system designed to protect them.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Past shapes your future, yet it does not dictate, determine, speaks nor controls your future.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Graham Greene

There was always another side to a joke, the side of the victim.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Deyth Banger

Films are about entering the world from distance... little being part of all people, series are all about entering the whole world with both feet... being part of all main characters or not only the main... but the killers... victims.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Raven Foundation

For scapegoating to occur, a community must agree on a target who can be blamed for anything that goes wrong. Sometimes a community just needs someone to BE wrong all the time, so they can know they are right. It really doesn’t matter if the person is actually guilty or wrong, as long as everyone agrees on it. That agreement allows the community to act against the scapegoat and feel justified. They can hate, abuse, ridicule, neglect, expel, wound or kill the scapegoat and actually experience feelings of joy and well-being afterward.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Ian Mckellen

No one needs to feel sorry for me or anyone else who has fallen victim to success.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Being survivors signifies that we have recognized that we have been through a lot that should never have taken place and we now hope to let our wounds heal and recuperate.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Achieving something gives you a sense of fulfillment, then create your own happiness by following up on your passions and achieving them.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Christine A. Courtois

Type II trauma also often occurs within a closed context - such as a family, a religious group, a workplace, a chain of command, or a battle group - usually perpetrated by someone related or known to the victim. As such, it often involves fundamental betrayal of the relationship between the victim and the perpetrator and within the community (Freyd, 1994). It may also involve the betrayal of a particular role and the responsibility associated with the relationship (i.e., parent-child, family member-child, therapist-client, teacher-student, clergy-child/adult congregant, supervisor-employee, military officer-enlisted man or woman). Relational dynamics of this sort have the effect of further complicating the victim's survival adaptations, especially when a superficially caring, loving or seductive relationship is cultivated with the victim (e.g., by an adult mentor such as a priest, coach, or teacher; by an adult who offers a child special favors for compliance; by a superior who acts as a protector or who can offer special favors and career advancement). In a process labelled "selection and grooming", potential abusers seek out as potential victims those who appear insecure, are needy and without resources, and are isolated from others or are obviously neglected by caregivers or those who are in crisis or distress for which they are seeking assistance. This status is then used against the victim to seduce, coerce, and exploit. Such a scenario can lead to trauma bonding between victim and perpetrator (i.e., the development of an attachment bond based on the traumatic relationship and the physical and social contact), creating additional distress and confusion for the victim who takes on the responsibility and guilt for what transpired, often with the encouragement or insinuation of the perpetrator(s) to do so.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Rafael Correa

We're facing a crisis that we have not provoked, yet we are the main victims of the greatest crisis since the 1930s. It's not been generated by factors external to the system, but by factors that are of the very essence of the system: exacerbated individualism, deregulation, competition, and so on.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Saul Williams

i am like a survivor of the flood walking through the streets drenched with God surprised that all of the drowned victims are still walking and talking

By Anonym 20 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

You were created to experience freedom and guarantee accountability for the freedom you experienced.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Rush Limbaugh

If you're a victim, you're always mad, but never at yourself. You're mad at somebody else.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Toba Beta

In wars amongst ideas, doubters are the victims.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Margaret Deland

gossip, after it reaches a certain point of insult and falsehood, becomes a source of amusement to its victims.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Kate Morton

Even the most pragmatic person fell victim at times to a longing for something other.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Emile Durkheim

The term suicide is applied to all cases of death resulting directly or indirectly from a positive or negative act of the victim himself, which he knows will produce this result

By Anonym 18 Sep

Sunday Adelaja

The main problem of a person with victim mentality is that he is incapable of thinking over his life and consequently cannot reach his goals

By Anonym 16 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

It wasn’t some mysterious adverse personality trait that comprises of who I am, it unquestionably had a source - A cradle of years of unprocessed trauma owing to sexual, emotional, mental, verbal and physical ill-treatment.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Gil Garcetti

Spending our tax dollars on actually preventing crimes, instead of pursuing death sentences after they've already been committed, will assure us we will have fewer victims.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Why me” goes along to haunt many survivors even today. Why was I abused? Or Why was I not protected?

By Anonym 17 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

More or less of these inner assets are still available within you to help you to not just live but to flourish.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Survivors may become overly flooded with a disposition of responsibility, guilt, anger, shame, fear, and grief.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

After all, life is a voyage, and you cannot start out this voyage all over once more. You need to be in shape for this trip.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Christine Mccormick Day

We've all been victims. We've all been perpetrators. And, so there is a group that is still experiencing that.

By Anonym 13 Sep

David Graeber

Debt is the most effective way to take a relation of violent subordination and make the victims feel that it's their fault.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Joshua Krook

The process of categorisation is as old as men, yet as old as man alone, for no other animal species categorises itself so neatly. Yet the ultimate, most vulnerable and weakest victim of categorisation is empathy. Categorisation is a process that destroys the very empathy that enlivens communities: the empathy that traditionally binds diverse communities together.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Michael Salter

This vacillation between assertion and denial in discussions about organised abuse can be understood as functional, in that it serves to contain the traumatic kernel at the heart of allegations of organised abuse. In his influential ‘just world’ theory, Lerner (1980) argued that emotional wellbeing is predicated on the assumption that the world is an orderly, predictable and just place in which people get what they deserve. Whilst such assumptions are objectively false, Lerner argued that individuals have considerable investment in maintaining them since they are conducive to feelings of self—efficacy and trust in others. When they encounter evidence contradicting the view that the world is just, individuals are motivated to defend this belief either by helping the victim (and thus restoring a sense of justice) or by persuading themselves that no injustice has occurred. Lerner (1980) focused on the ways in which the ‘just world’ fallacy motivates victim-blaming, but there are other defences available to bystanders who seek to dispel troubling knowledge. Organised abuse highlights the severity of sexual violence in the lives of some children and the desire of some adults to inflict considerable, and sometimes irreversible, harm upon the powerless. Such knowledge is so toxic to common presumptions about the orderly nature of society, and the generally benevolent motivations of others, that it seems as though a defensive scaffold of disbelief, minimisation and scorn has been erected to inhibit a full understanding of organised abuse. Despite these efforts, there has been a recent resurgence of interest in organised abuse and particularly ritualistic abuse (eg Sachs and Galton 2008, Epstein et al. 2011, Miller 2012).

By Anonym 18 Sep

Lynn Hersha

Other personalities are created to handle new traumas, their existence usually occurring one at a time. Each has a singular purpose and is totally focused on that task. The important aspect of the mind's extreme dissociation is that each ego state is totally without knowledge of the other. Because of this, the researchers for the CIA and the Department of Defense believed they could take a personality, train him or her to be a killer and no other ego stares would be aware of the violence that was taking place. The personality running the body would be genuinely unaware of the deaths another personality was causing. Even torture could not expose the with, because the personality experiencing the torture would have no awareness of the information being sought. Earlier, such knowledge was gained from therapists working with adults who had multiple personalities. The earliest pioneers in the field, such as Dr. Ralph Alison, a psychiatrist then living in Santa Cruz, California, were helping victims of severe early childhood trauma. Because there were no protocols for treatment, the pioneers made careful notes, publishing their discoveries so other therapists would understand how to help these rare cases. By 1965, the information was fairly extensive, including the knowledge that only unusually intelligent children become multiple personalities and that sexual trauma endured by a restrained child under the age of seven is the most common way to induce hysteric dissociation.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Draw your life back on track so you can live free of just coping. You can heal and recover!

By Anonym 20 Sep

Gary Hopkins

You are a victim only when you have decided to play the part.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Ursula K. Le Guin

Hope is a slighter, tougher thing even than trust, he thought, pacing his room as the soundless, vague lightning flashed overhead. In a good season one trusts life; in a bad season one only hopes, But they are of the same essence: they are the mind's indispensable relationship with other minds, with the world, and with time. Without trust, a man lives, but not a human life; without hope, he dies. When there is no relationship, where hands do not touch, emotion atrophies in void and intelligence goes sterile and obsessed. Between men the only link left is that of owner to slave, or murderer to victim.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

You possess strength, resilience, tenacity, endurance, and willpower as you have lived through a cracking mess.

By Anonym 17 Sep

Kayla Krantz

No matter what, the day didn't feel like Christmas to her. She remembered years ago, when she had been just a little kid, and the word had been enough to make her happy. Nothing stirred in her now. Her childhood felt like it had been in another life. As she sat alone in her room with tears drying to her face, she resolved that no matter what the calendar said, it wasn't Christmas. If it was, she'd feel happy, not depressed.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Mokokoma Mokhonoana

*Prostitution* is a euphemism for rape incidents that the victim and the economy profits from.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Carol Tavris

History is written by the victors, but it's victims who write the memoirs.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Jim Brown

I recognize the inequities certain cultures have to go through. I understand the history of slavery. I know all those things. But I'm not a victim. I can vote, I can participate, I can invest my money, I can invest my time, and that's what I'm doing. I'm not working for anybody. I'm not making any money doing what I'm doing. I'm doing it because someone did it for me.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Abused children as they grow to believe that they are damaged beyond repair.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Ayaan Hirsi Ali

I would like to be judged on the validity of my arguments, not as a victim.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Byron Katie

As long as you think that the cause of your problem is “out there”—as long as you think that anyone or anything is responsible for your suffering—the situation is hopeless. It means that you are forever in the role of victim, that you’re suffering in paradise.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

You have already accomplished more than you undoubtedly grasp just by going out this far.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Abused children realize that they cannot rely on their emotions since their innocent love and trust are already crushed and betrayed. They learn that whatever the opinion they do express may be ignored or mocked.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

Start treating the damaged “you” just the way you would have wished to be handled when you were a child.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Patricia Dsouza

You are powerful and fierce since you got out of all that was abominable.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Patricia Ireland

The opposition has moved from a blaming the victim to blaming the victim's advocate's statistics. Irrespective of what the numbers are, it's far too many.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Brian Kirk

Every beautiful creature," she says. "Lives inside a cage.