Best 228 of Self control quotes - MyQuotes

By Anonym 15 Sep

Lisa Bedrick

As Christians, we call ourselves people of faith, but how much practical faith do we really have?

By Anonym 17 Sep

Turcois Ominek

No matter the situation don't let your emotions overpower your intelligence.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Saul Bellow

It is not easy to find the right way. You must learn to govern yourself, you must learn autonomy, you must manage your freedom or drown in it. You may strain the will after Experience because you need it for your books. Or you may perish under the heavy weight of Culture. You may make a fool of yourself anywhere. You may find illumination anywhere—in the gutter, in the college, in the corporation, in a submarine, in the library. No one man holds a patent on it. No man knows what it is likely to tell him to do.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Israelmore Ayivor

If you manage yourself, you control the flow of your time to the right direction. It takes self-discipline to be at the center of control for your own time.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Lailah Gifty Akita

The warrior must never get angry in war.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Strict exercise of self-control is an essential feature of the Christian's life.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Jim Berg

The believer can and will say no to any wrong desires when he has said a bigger yes to Christ's will for him.

By Anonym 18 Sep

D. J. Kenny

Restraint: “There are three things that must always act restrained. Even five that should not use violence as their final word: The diplomat negotiating for his lord, The teacher instilling knowledge, The parent dealing with exasperating children, The officer establishing respect among the troops, And the wronged seeking justice.” —The Order of Things, Jan Alinckbroodt, Clinohumite poet philosopher (457 fTF - 620 fTF)(translated by D. J. Kenny)

By Anonym 18 Sep

Auliq Ice

The greatest form of power is the power to control one's self not the power to control others.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Joseph Deitch

We don’t put up with having our computers hacked for the benefit of others, so why cede control of our minds and our very being to anyone else?

By Anonym 17 Sep

Nana Awere Damoah

Many of us are reactive, not proactive. We react. We hit back. We are ‘an eye for an eye’ practitioners. We attack when we are attacked, with good measure. Our barometer reads from the environment and makes us act accordingly. We are mirrors who reflect the anger in others, the bad attitude in the other person, the negative comments of others. Let me show you a higher level of living.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Ana Claudia Antunes

Don't let the excess of demand make you loose your command and get you further from what you've planned.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Henry Cloud

...experiencing life as a victim instead of living it purposefully with a feeling of self-control.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Jane Vella

A good teacher does not teach all that he knows. He teaches all that the learners need to know at the time, and all that the learners can accountably learn in the time given.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Anna White

Truth: last week I online shopped too much. Then I ate 2 pounds of jelly beans to feel better about that. In fact, while I was trying to read soul-nourishing things all I could think about was shopping and jellybeans. Points to the monkey mind.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Jennifer Egan

There’s a fine line between thinking about somebody and thinking about not thinking about somebody, but I have the patience and the self-control to walk that line for hours—days, if I have to.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Toba Beta

Sometimes, you must refrain from doing things you want so bad.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Jack Whiteside Parsons

Freedom like charity, begins at home. No man is worthy to fight in the cause of freedom unless he has conquered his internal masters. He must learn control and discipline over the disastrous passions that would lead him to folly and ruin. He must conquer inordinate vanity and anger, self-deception, fear, and inhibition.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Maddy Malhotra

With your thoughts, emotions, and beliefs under control, you can have as much as the richest man and be as peaceful as a Buddhist monk . You can experience inner-happiness and euphoric love.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Mark Sayers

By our day, self-restraint was considered madness.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Horace

Ira furor brevis est: animum rege: qui nisi paret imperat. (Anger is a brief madness: govern your mind [temper], for unless it obeys it commands.)

By Anonym 20 Sep

Lailah Gifty Akita

You are in control of your life, when you refuse to be provoke.

By Anonym 15 Sep

George Ainslie

Are ordinary people really populations of interests rather than something more solid? It’s disturbing to think of yourself as so fluid, so potentially unstable, held together only by the shifting influence of available rewards. It’s like being told that atoms are mostly empty and wondering how they can bear weight. Yet the bargaining of interests in a society can produce highly stable institutions; perhaps that’s also true of the internal interests created by a person’s rewards.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Elisabeth Corey

As we let go of our need to control, we find freedom.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Akiroq Brost

Quiet is not synonymous with weak.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Lisa Bedrick

We need to not let food master us and take the throne of our lives. We need to make food submit to us, rather than us submitting to food. No one can serve two masters. We cannot serve money and God, and we cannot serve food and God.

By Anonym 17 Sep

Gary Taubes

Of all the dangerous ideas that health officials could have embraced while trying to understand why we get fat, they would have been hard-pressed to find one ultimately more damaging than calories-in/calories-out. That it reinforces what appears to be so obvious - obesity as the penalty for gluttony and sloth - is what makes it so alluring. But it's misleading and misconceived on so many levels that it's hard to imagine how it survived unscathed and virtually unchallenged for the last fifty years. It has done incalculable harm. Not only is this thinking at least partly responsible for the ever-growing numbers of obese and overweight in the world - while directing attention away from the real reasons we get fat - but it has served to reinforce the perception that those who get fat have no one to blame but themselves. That eating less invariably fails as a cure for obesity is rarely perceived as the single most important reason to make us question our assumptions, as Hilde Bruch suggested half a century ago. Rather, it is taken as still more evidence that the overweight and obese are incapable of following a diet and eating in moderation. And it put the blame for their physical condition squarely on their behavior, which couldn't be further from the truth.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Aristotle

Anyone can get angry, but to do this to the right person, to the right extent, at the right time, with the right motive, and in the right way, that is not for everyone, nor is it easy.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Ellery Queen

He was startled, but there was that about him which made it impossible to show what he felt, an instant and utter reflex of stillness to counteract all outward evidence of surprise, fear, anything.

By Anonym 18 Sep

N. T. Wright

The church is often called a killjoy for protesting against sexual license. But the real killing of joy comes with the grabbing of pleasure. As with credit card usage. the price tag is hidden at the start, but the physical and emotional debt incurred will take a long time to pay off.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Lailah Gifty Akita

Human complexity can be conquered with calmness.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Hina Hashmi

We can choose the type of thoughts we repeat in our mind. Nothing can force us to pick any memory, circumstance or relationship without our permission.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Joyce Meyer

Discipline enables you to think first and act second.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Tana French

I had seen her in a temper before – I tell her it's her French grandfather's fault, Mediterranean lack of self-control – and I knew she'd settle down now she'd taken it out on the tree.

By Anonym 14 Sep

Charles Darwin

The highest possible stage in moral culture is when we recognize that we ought to control our thoughts.

By Anonym 20 Sep

Josh Hatcher

What we need to do is treat some of our thoughts like door to door salesmen. If someone comes to your door and asks if he can come inside and throw some dirt on your floor to demonstrate his vaccuum cleaner - you would probably tell him “No thanks! See you later!” And yet - if a friend stopped by with a meatloaf and wanted to visit - we’d say “Come on in!” We need to stop being PASSIVE about what thoughts can take residence in our head.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Michael Bassey Johnson

A deaf and dumb in the mist of morons is a renowed talkative among brains.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Laurie Nadel

Humility—the first gift—can help us surrender to an event outside our control, one we couldn’t prevent and was not our fault

By Anonym 18 Sep

Lailah Gifty Akita

The greatest conquest is self –control.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Esther Duflo

Designing financial products that share the commitment features of the microfinance contracts, without the interest that comes with them, could clearly be of great help to many people. A group of researchers teamed up with a bank that works with poor people in the Philippines to design such a product, a new kind of account that would be tied to each client’s own savings targets. This target could be either an amount (the client would commit not to withdraw the funds until the amount was reached) or a date (the client would commit to leave the money in the account until that date). The client chose the type of commitment and the specific target. However, once those targets were set, they were binding, and the bank would enforce them. The interest rate was no higher than on a regular account. These accounts were proposed to a randomly selected set of clients. Of the clients they approached, about one in four agreed to open such an account. Out of those takers, a little over two-thirds chose the date goal, and the remaining one-third, the amount goal. After a year, the balances in the savings accounts of those who were offered the account were on average 81 percent higher than those of a comparable group of people who were not offered the account, despite the fact that only one in four of the clients who had been offered the account actually signed on. And the effects were probably smaller than they could have been, because even though there was a commitment not to withdraw any money, there was no positive force pushing the client to actually save, and many of the accounts that were opened remained dormant. Yet most people preferred not to take up the offer of such an account. They were clearly worried about committing themselves to not withdrawing until the goal was reached. Dumas and Robinson ran into the same problem in Kenya—many people did not end up using that accounts they were offering, some of the because the withdrawal fees were too high and they did not want to have their money tied up in the account. This highlights an interesting paradox: There are ways to get around self-control problems, but to make use of them usually requires an initial act of self-control.

By Anonym 18 Sep

Miriam Lichtheim

The cardinal virtues are self-control, moderation, kindness, generosity, justice, and truthfulness tempered by discretion

By Anonym 13 Sep

Jessica Valenti

According to the virginity movement, men have no self-control when it comes to anything sexual.

By Anonym 18 Sep

James Surowiecki

The basic idea here is that for most people will power is a limited resource: if we spend lots of energy controlling our impulses in one area, it becomes harder to control our impulses in others. Or, as the psychologist Roy Baumeister puts it, will power is like a muscle: overuse temporarily exhausts it.

By Anonym 20 Sep

George Eliot

Will was not without his intentions to be always generous, but our tongues are little triggers which have usually been pulled before general intentions can be brought to bear.

By Anonym 16 Sep

W. Somerset Maugham

It amused him sometimes to consider that his friends, because he had a face which did not express his feelings very vividly and a rather slow way of moving, looked upon him as strong-minded, deliberate and cool. They thought him reasonable and praised his common sense; but he knew that his placid expression was no more than a mask, assumed unconsciously, which acted like the protective colouring of butterflies; and himself was astonished at the weakness of his will. It seemed to him that he was swayed by every light emotion, as though he were a leaf in the wind, and when passion seized him he was powerless. He had no self-control. He merely seemed to possess it because he was indifferent to many of the things which moved other people. He considered with some irony the philosophy which he had developed for himself, for it had not been of much use to him in the conjuncture he had passed through; and he wondered whether thought really helped a man in any of the critical affairs of life: it seemed to him rather that he was swayed by some power alien to and yet within himself, which urged him like that great wind of Hell which drove Paolo and Francesca ceaselessly on. He thought of what he was going to do and, when the time came to act, he was powerless in the grasp of instincts, emotions, he knew not what. He acted as though he were a machine driven by the two forces of his environment and personality; his reason was someone looking on, observing the facts but powerless to interfere: it was like those gods of Epicurus, who saw the doings of men from their empyrean heights and had no might to alter one smallest particle of what occurred.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Richard Rohr

If you do not acquire good training in detachment, you may attach to all the wrong things.

By Anonym 13 Sep

Dale Carnegie

Everybody in the world is seeking happiness - and there is one sure way to find it. That is by controlling your thoughts. Happiness doesn't depend on outward conditions. It depends on inner conditions.

By Anonym 19 Sep

Criss Jami

They have a special confidence in Christ, plus thoughtfulness plus faithfulness plus humility: for there are no things, in all creation, more beautiful, more rare than the so very disciplined and free, joyful and principled daughters of God.

By Anonym 16 Sep

Toba Beta

If I still need someone to calm my anger down, then I surely need a scapegoat who enrages me.

By Anonym 15 Sep

Raheel Farooq

Be at peace with yourself, or you'll be at war with everyone.