Best 23 quotes of Nancy Friday on MyQuotes

After sex, men fear too much intimacy; they want to separate again. Women want to talk, to continue the merging, melting fusion into one. Postcoital conversations keep the woman's power alive. Through unconscious severance, by falling asleep, the man regains his self.

All my writing has been an effort to sort out the paradoxes of my life.

Because society would rather we always wore a pretty face, women have been trained to cut off anger.

Blaming mother is just a negative way of clinging to her still.

Do women dress for men or women? I’ve always wondered why that eternally provocative question is put in terms of approval - as if the heart of the matter, the answer, were indeed a question of approval by either sex. But the question is never satisfactorily answered because it is incorrectly posed. It’s disapproval, the fear of it, that motivates most women, and with disapproval it doesn’t matter where it comes from.

Dreams are the expression of the unconscious while we are asleep.

Fantasy isn't something you run out of.

For instance, in group therapy, I'll have people stand up, show off, give a speech about themselves as though they've just died and have to give a eulogy. Even with this explicit permission - even an order - to say something nice about themselves, this is the hardest thing in the world for people to do. They'd rather take their clothes off.

If you believe in the maternal instinct and fail at mother love, you fail as a woman. It is a controlling idea that holds us in an iron grip.

I like the company of men. I've never been welcome in those groups, but then I would no more go to a consciousness-raising group and talk about my intimate life with my husband than fly to the moon. I never understood all that.

I'm sure it's why I'm such an odd duck in my feminist generation, because I've always been equally fair to men.

In a baby's first months, the earliest patterns of intimacy or distrust are forever grooved into his soul.

Inside every adult male is a denied little boy.

I think biologically we are attracted to more than one person, but given society and our needs, monogamy works better.

Our culture raises us to seek success but we are not taught how to live with it.

Separation is not the end of love; it creates love.

Sexuality is the great field of battle between biology and society.

Spontaneous love admits errors, hesitations and human failings. It can be tested and repaired.

The debt of gratitude we owe our mother and father goes forward, not backward. What we owe our parents is the bill presented to us by our children.

The older I get...the more of my mother I see in myself.

To say something nice about themselves, this is the hardest thing in the world for people to do.

When is enough enough? In envy's eyes, enough never is. Somebody else always has something we want.

When I stopped seeing my mother with the eyes of a child, I saw the woman who helped me give birth to myself.