Best 33 quotes of Milton H. Erickson on MyQuotes

A goal without a date is just a dream.

As for my dignity... the hell with my dignity. I will get along alright in this world. I don't have to be dignified, professional.

Don't ask why the patient is the way he is, ask for what he would change.

Dreams, puns, elisions, plays on words and similar tricks that we ordinarily think of as frivolous, all play a surprising and somewhat disconcerting role in the communication of important and serious feelings.

Each person is a unique individual. Hence, psychotherapy should be formulated to meet the uniqueness of the individual's needs, rather than tailoring the person to fit the Procrustean bed of a hypothetical theory of human behavior.

Emphasis should be placed more on what the patient does in the present and will do in the future than on a mere understanding of why some long-past event occurred.

Enlightenment is always preceded by confusion.

Every person's map of the world is as unique as their thumbprint.There are no two people alike. No two people who understand the same sentence the same way... So in dealing with people, you try not to fit them to your concept of what they should be.

How many of us really appreciate the childishness of the unconscious mind?

I am very confident. I look confident. I act confident. I speak in a confident way.

I have no intention of dying. In fact, it will be the last thing I do!

Life isn't something you can give an answer to today. You should enjoy the process of waiting, the process of becoming what you are. There is nothing more delightful than planting flower seeds and not knowing what kind of flowers are going to come up.

Life will bring you pain all by itself. Your responsibility is to create joy.

Patients are patients because they are out of rapport with their own unconscious... Patients are people who have had too much programming - so much outside programming that they have lost touch with their inner selves.

People do not come into therapy to change their past but their future.

People who accomplish a great many things are people who have freed themselves from biases. These are the creative people.

Shut up, sit in that chair there and go into a deep trance!

The conscious ego cannot tell the unconscious what to do?

The most important thing in changing human behavior is the person's motivation.

Therapy is often a matter of tipping the first domino.

There are so many things in human living that we should regard not as traumatic learning but as incomplete learning, unfinished learning.

The Structure of Magic I by Richard Bandler and John Grinder is a delightful simplification of the infinite complexities of the language I use with patients. In reading this book, I learned a great deal about the things that I've done without knowing about them.

The unconscious mind is decidedly simple, unaffected, straightforward and honest. It hasn't got all of this facade, this veneer of what we call adult culture. It's rather simple, rather childish It is direct and free.

The unconscious works without your knowledge and that is the way it prefers.

Trance is a natural everyday experience.

Until you are willing to be confused about what you already know, what you know will never grow bigger, better, or more useful.

We always translate the other person's language into our own language.

When I wanted to know something, I wanted it undistorted by somebody else's imperfect knowledge.

You can't learn to swim on a piano bench.

You can trust the unconscious.

You don't take insults. You leave them with the insulter.

You use hypnosis not as a cure but as a means of establishing a favorable climate in which to learn.

I have no intention of dying. In fact, that will be the last thing I do!