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By AnonymAlfred Adler
A lie would have no sense unless the truth were felt as dangerous.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
All failures - neurotics, psychotics, criminals, drunkards, problem children, suicides, perverts, and prostitutes - are failures because they are lacking in social interest
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
An educator's most important task, one might say his holy duty, is to see to it that no child is discouraged at school, and that a child who enters school already discouraged regains his self-confidence through his school and his teacher. This goes hand in hand with the vocation of the educator, for education is possible only with children who look hopefully and joyfully upon the future.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
A simple rule in dealing with those who are hard to get along with is to remember that this person is striving to assert his superiority; and you must deal with him from that point of view.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Courage is not an ability one either possess or lacks. Courage is the willingness to engage in a risk-taking behavior regardless of whether the consequences are unknown or possibly adverse. We are capable of courageous behavior provided we are willing to engage in it. Given that life offers few guarantees, all living requires risk-taking.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Death is really a great blessing for humanity, without it there could be no real progress. People who lived for ever would not only hamper and discourage the young, but they would themselves lack sufficient stimulus to be creative.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Distorted history boasts of bellicose glory... and seduces the souls of boys to seek mystical bliss in bloodshed and in battles.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Each generation has its few great mathematicians, and mathematics would not even notice the absence of the others. They are useful as teachers, and their research harms no one, but it is of no importance at all. A mathematician is great or he is nothing.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Every individual acts and suffers in accordance with his peculiar teleology, which has all the inevitability of fate, so long as he does not understand it.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Every pampered child becomes a hated child.... There is no greater evil than the pampering of children.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Every therapeutic cure, and still more, any awkward attempt to show the patient the truth, tears him from the cradle of his freedom from responsibility and must therefore reckon with the most vehement resistance.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Exaggerated sensitiveness is an expression of the feeling of inferiority.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Far more unwaveringly, the neurotic keeps before his eye his God, his idol, his ideal of personality and clings to his guiding principle, losing sight in the meanwhile of reality, whereas the normal person is always ready to dispense with this crutch, this aid, and reckon unhampered with reality.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Follow your heart always, and remember to take your head along with you.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Follow your heart but take your brain with you.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
God who is eternally complete, who directs the stars, who is the master of fates, who elevates man from his lowliness to Himself, who speaks from the cosmos to every single human soul, is the most brilliant manifestation of the goal of perfection.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
He used to say to his melancholia patients: "You can be cured in fourteen days if you follow this prescription.Try to think every day how you can please someone.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
I am grateful for the idea that has used me.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
If you wish to educate a child who has gone wrong, then you must, above all, keep your attention fixed on the intersection of two charmed circles.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
In a country of such recent civilization as ours, whose almost limitless treasures of material wealth invite the risks of capital and the industry of labor, it is but natural that material interests should absorb the attention of the people to a degree elsewhere unknown.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
In the company of friends, writers can discuss their books, economists the state of the economy, lawyers their latest cases, and businessmen their latest acquisitions, but mathematicians cannot discuss their mathematics at all. And the more profound their work, the less understandable it is.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
In the investigation of a neurotic style of life, we must always suspect an opponent, and note who suffers most because of the patient's condition. Usually this is a member of the family.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
In this case, the neurotic resembles a human being who looks up to God, commends himself to His ways, and then religiously awaits how the Lord will guide him; he is nailed to the cross of his fiction.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is always easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is easy to believe that life is long and one's gifts are vast -- easy at the beginning, that is. But the limits of life grow more evident; it becomes clear that great work can be done rarely, if at all.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is one of the most effective attitudes of the neurotic to measure thumbs down, so to speak, a real person by an ideal, since in doing so he can depreciate him as much as he wishes.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is one of the triumphs of human wit ... to conquer by humility and submissiveness ... to make oneself small in order to appear great ... such ... are often the expedients of the neurotic.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow men who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury to others. It is fro+m among such individuals that all human failures spring.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is the patriotic duty of every man to lie for his country.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is very obvious that we are not influenced by "facts" but by our interpretation of the facts.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
It is well known that those who do not trust themselves never trust others.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Life is just the same as learning to swim. Do not be afraid of making mistakes, for there is no other way of learning how to live!
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Meanings are not determined by situations, but we determine ourselves by the meanings we give to situations.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Men of genius are admired, men of wealth are envied, men of power are feared; but only men of character are trusted.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
More important than innate disposition, objective experience, and environment is the subjective evaluation of these. Furthermore, this evaluation stands in a certain, often strange, relation to reality.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Nobody adopts antisocial behaviour unless they fear that they will fail if they remain on the social side of life.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
No experience is a cause of success or failure. We do not suffer from the shock of our experiences, so-called trauma - but we make out of them just what suits our purposes.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Our modern states are preparing for war without even knowing the future enemy.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Overcoming difficulties leads to courage, self-respect, and knowing yourself.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
seeing with the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another, and feeling with the heart of another.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
Tears and complaints - the means which I have called water power - can be an extremely useful weapon for disturbing cooperation and reducing other to a condition of slavery.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The Adlerians, in the name of "individual psychology," take the side of society against the individual. ... Adler's later thought succumbs to the worst of his earlier banalization. It is conventional, practical, and moralistic. "Our science ... is based on common sense." Common sense, the half-truths of a deceitful society, is honored as the honest truths of a frank world.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The chief danger in life is that you may take too many precautions.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The educator must believe in the potential power of his pupil, and he must employ all his art in seeking to bring his pupil to experience this power.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The feeling of inferiority rules the mental life and can be clearly recognized in the sense of incompleteness and unfulfillment, and in the uninterrupted struggle both of individuals and humanity.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The human mind shows an urge to capture into fixed forms through unreal assumptions, that is, fictions, that which is chaotic, always in flux, and incomprehensible. Serving this urge, the child quite generally uses a scheme in order to act and to find his way. We proceed much the same when we divide the earth by meridians and parallels, for only thus do we obtain fixed points which we can bring into a relationship with one another.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The mathematical life of a mathematician is short. Work rarely improves after the age of twenty-five or thirty. If little has been accomplished by then, little will ever be accomplished.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well.
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By AnonymAlfred Adler
The only worthwhile achievements of man are those which are socially useful.
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