Best 160 quotes in «emotional intelligence quotes» category

In the heat of passion, emotions override judgment.

It can be proven that wounded people wound others. Walk circumspectly among wounded people, their injuries are deeply submerged in their brain's amygdala, and without the time-tested practice of emotional intelligence, you might find yourself scarred by association. Give your associations time to reveal their emotional intelligence or lack thereof; employers measure their associates seasonally, quarterly, and or annually; but ask yourself the question: (Q) WHY haven't you?

it is my firm belief that in life, you get, what you give!

Let grief flow. Refusing to feel it costs us more than we know.

It is not difficult for an unwise mother quite unintentionally to centre the heterosexual feelings of a young son upon herself, and it is true that, if this is done, the evil consequences pointed out by Freud will probably ensue. This is, however, much less likely to occur if the mother's sexual life is satisfying to her, for in that case she will not look to her child for a type of emotional satisfaction which ought to be sought only from adults. The parental impulse in its purity is an impulse to care for the young, not to demand affection from them, and if a woman is happy in her sexual life she will abstain spontaneously from all improper demands for emotional response from her child.

It isn't stress that makes us fall - it's how we respond to stressful events.

It is the mind’s job to protect and take care of you, to solve your problems and make sure you’re safe. So, if you feel a surge of emotional upset, it moves into action, trying to help, looking for the source of the upset—for the problems—and generating solutions. Under these conditions, the key to getting the mind to go on standby—to stilling the mind’s compulsive thinking—lies in recognizing, accepting, and working with the emotional upset. Once you address the emotional undercurrent, once it is no longer churning inside you, the mind can switch off and quite literally leave you in peace.

It's a curse to have traumas imprinted in our wiring, to accept that what we fear and grieve and impale ourselves upon from day to day defines the way we translate the chemistry of emotions into a fixed identity wired for suffering. It's also a marvelous asset, our malleability. When the imprinting experience is loving, exciting, rich and worthy of our more expansive nature, we align pleasurably with harmony and bliss. But let's face it, we're humans. Disasters entertain our brains far more than comforts, ease and joy ever will. No one straps into the ride for the smoothness of it all going well.

It's amazing how once the mind is free of emotional pollution, logic and clarity emerge.

I was not talking about a double or triple genius. I, just, have been writing.

Like many liberal men in the age of feminism, he believed women should have equal access to jobs and be given equal pay, but when it came to matters of home and heart he still believed caregiving was the female role. Like many men, he wanted a woman to be 'just like his mama' so that he did not have to do the work of growing up.

I’ve always thought that the best moments can come from the worst times.

Jon itu pemuda ber-IQ tinggi, dengan EQ jongkok, dan SQ tiarap.

Just as death allows life to continue, grieving clears the way for renewal and rebirth.

Most meditative practices focus on the mind and becoming aware of our thoughts. By bringing this same awareness to our emotions - and then going further by consciously engaging them and uncovering the wisdom they hold - we can gain an even greater level of self-mastery. Emotional mastery comes not just from detachment, but from also allowing our emotions to fully flow, and receiving all that they have to offer us.

Love Request: Isn't this all we request from love? A brave, vulnerable and sincere exposure, To be candidly seen in all our faults Blemishes, quirks and flaws Yet still be so implicitly loved Cherished, accepted And most of all, Wanted

Love isn't about what you do for me. Love is where I see myself in relation to you.

Most fights originate as a consequence of blaming others for one's own emotional issues. Assuming responsibility for these emotions will most likely make the relationship a healthy and balanced one. Boundaries help foster the wellbeing of one's mental health and self-esteem.

Not until you change your lens, true beauty shall always look ugly to you!

No matter what we do, each instant contains infinite choices. What we choose to think, to say or to hear creates what we feel in the present moment, it conditions the quality of our communication and in the end the quality of our everyday life. Beliefs and attitudes are made of thoughts. Negative thoughts can be changed and by doing so we create for ourselves more pleasant inner states and have a different impact on the people around us

Our approach to modern health care focuses so much on removing symptoms, that we’ve learned to equate immediate relief with healing. But healing is much more than simply feeling better in the moment; it requires true transformation, and transformation is rarely comfortable.

Our boundaries define our personal space - and we need to be sovereign there in order to be able to step into our full power and potential.

Our ego is essential for us to function in the world. It is how I know who I am as a different person from you.

One of the easiest ways to discover if someone is compatible with you is to gauge their emotional intelligence. Are they a kind and sensitive person? Will they be respectful towards your sensitivities? Or, are they emotionally stunted? Remember, we tend to attract narcissistic types who lack empathy.

Our emotions are essential for navigating our daily environment, and following the path of our soul. Our emotions connect us to our Authenticity.

Our feelings are not there to be cast out or conquered. They’re there to be engaged and expressed with imagination and intelligence.

Poor feeling hijacks thinking for self-deception: to hide harsh truths, avoid action, evade responsibility, and, as the existentialists might put it, flee from freedom. Thus, poor feeling is a kind of moral failing, indeed, the deepest kind, and virtue principally consists in correcting and refining our emotions and the values that they reflect. To feel the right thing is to do the right thing, without any particular need for conscious thought or effort.

People whose eyes shine are happy to be alive. They see life and it’s glory even when things aren’t easy. And because they see life, even through all the problems and obstacles, their eyes shine.

Our shame becomes toxic when we internalize messages from others that don't serve our health and well-being.

People treating their minds like bin, by keeping negative emotions for example jealousy and hatred, cannot experience happiness and peace.

People who have rejected their fear, whether consciously or not, lose their ability to discern danger. Health fear keeps us safe.

Refusing to feel your emotions doesn't just make them go away. Just like a neighbor trying to warn you of a fire, they have a vital message to share. They'll continue banging on the door, getting louder and louder the longer their message goes ignored.

Sex removes the passion passion removes the sex Nothing can be better or worse than true. Devil is the fake one of the God. Even if you lose everything don't lose your self.

Sales is based on the most basic emotion – People like to buy things they need from people they like. What makes them like us – comfort level, our listening & solution providing skills & timely processing of their requirements.

Shame can be an incredible burden, making us feel not good enough no matter what we do. But shame is also the emotion that makes us honorable and kind, and motivates us to constantly improve ourselves.

Rescue your heart when you feel you need to Choose to share it with those that value and appreciate everything you are And everything you are not. Hold your heart in your hands and cherish its riches. Love in its purest form comes without judgement or conditions, But you need to value your heart first so that others can love you there too.

Running a marathon with a backpack is tough and may hinder you from winning the race. Don’t let the baggage from your past - heavy with fear, guilt, and anger - slow you down.

Shift your attention, and your emotion shifts. Shift your emotion, and your attention shifts.

The glorification of hatred is predicated on a foundation of fear-induced ignorance venomous to haters and those they believe they hate.

Soar And how can you soar When you are so rooted to your pain? The lessons of letting go, my love, are never made in vain. Take what you need so you can navigate your way, And let the rest go, with love and with faith.

Some people are somewhat immature: when they see your ‘nakedness’, they would shout for everyone to hear! Beware of such people!

Systems and rules are guidelines, leadership is lifeline.

The best time to learn to be grown-up is when you are growing up.

The first thing I check once I’m inside a story is the emotional weather. Is there a storm coming? What’s the temperature, and how powerful are the winds? The difference between walking on water and sliding one’s ass across slick ice is only a matter of degree.

Some researchers claim that emotional intelligence accounts for 75 percent of a person's success and perhaps that will be more true for the success of future artificial intelligence based cyborgs and other systems.

Taking time to simply be with what we are feeling is the only way to hear the quiet voice of our heart, so that we can allow our true hearts’ desires to guide us.

The brain is your emotional cockpit. Lots of buttons and levers. Best to learn how to steer responsibly.

The human mind and what we've achieved with it is remarkable. But it does not come close to what we can do, be, see and heal with our hearts

The more we practice mindfulness the more we understand the emotional dynamics of the self and others.

The more we practice mindfulness the more we understand the emotional dynamics of the self and others. Mindful emotions can create a positive climate leading to better outcomes.